Looks like the extension is going ahead, hurry up and get my new contract in front of me though. I've only got 1 day left before i'm off for 11 with my nose op. Then I have 2 days left total!
Wednesday, 7 October 2026
AI view of my Blog
Wat De Fu (watdefu.com) is a long-running, highly active personal lifestyle blog authored by a self-described "dude" who shares casual daily updates, personal anecdotes, and family milestones. Originally from Corby and now living in Tonbridge, the author balances a corporate city career (mostly working from home) with a busy family and pet-filled life.
- Family & Home Life: Frequent mentions of his partner (April), his two children (including son Arthur and daughter Flo), a "slimming cat," and an energetic 5-year-old dog.
- Sports & Hobbies: Heavily centered around grassroots rugby (specifically the local TJs youth teams). He also regularly posts about gaming sessions, board game nights, and playing Football Manager.
- Social & Leisure: Lighthearted reviews of local restaurants in Tonbridge (like a recent Vietnamese lunch spot), random indie/rock music gigs in London (e.g., Alien Chicks near Brick Lane), and neighborhood pubs.
- Career Updates: Honest, relatable reflections on the realities of corporate contracting, commuting, and navigating work contract extensions.
- Massive Archive: The blog has been continuously updated for over two decades, with historical archives dating all the way back to 2004.
- High Frequency: This is not a abandoned project; the author posts multiple times a week. For context, he managed 502 posts in 2024, 549 posts in 2025, and has already logged hundreds of entries over the current year.
work, rugby, cats, and beer) to help readers navigate thousands of micro-logs.Double booked again
Last night's gaming session was double booked again. John the landlord has apologised and has booked us in for the rest of the year. We ended up cancelling our baby sitter and heading over to mine.
Tuesday, 6 October 2026
Extension possibility
I had a chat to my director (who I now report into) last week regarding the possibility of an extension. It's looking good but knowing how the company operates may be very close to the my last day (27th Oct).
Nose op update
Still going ahead on Friday. It's been a long time coming. I suffered for years with this, probably for over 10 years if I really think about all of the symptoms. Let's hope it fixes things. I'm getting 2 weeks off work though, so that will be nice.
Vietnamese
April was away (again) this weekend so took the kids for lunch at our local Vietnamese place in Tonbridge on Saturday. Lovely.
Random gig in London
One of my rugby mates works at a school and one of his physics teachers is in a band. Alien Chicks. He asked us if we wanted to go and we said yes. It was over by Brick Lane and a great night out.
First tournament for the u7s
And a brilliant day out. Well done guys! Not wanting to brag... but I will anyway. Arthur managed to bag himself 12 tries, and he only played 4 halves!












